Partnership!!!
In life, in work, in love, in sickness, in health, in trials, in troubles - everyone needs a partner.
A partner is not always a person with whom you have a romantic relationship.
A partner is also someone who understands, supports and is there by your side even if the whole world is against you.
When a husband and wife become partners, nothing and no one can stop them from achieving anything they want in life.
EPISODE:
UPDATED Missing portion: The episode starts with Sonakshi saying that she has to leave. She has to go to Soha's school.
Her employees remind her of a meeting.
Sonakshi says: That can be done later. This is urgent.
She leaves.
In the meanwhile, Bhaiya is still busy with Shubh when he notices Bijoy's three missed calls.
He calls him back: Baba, you called?
Bijoy says: Yes. I called three times. Where are you?
Bhaiya: I am at home. Is everything alright?
Bijoy: Nothing is alright. Just check your phone. What's the time now?
Bhaiya checks the phone and panics: I have to pick up the children. I am just coming there.
Bijoy: At least you realised. Okay. The kids are with me. I am bringing them.
Bhaiya stammers: No Papa. I am coming to pick them up. I am just coming.
Bijoy: No. You don't need to come.
Bhaiya: The kids are my responsibilities.
Bijoy: At least you realised that which you are fulfilling very well.
Bhaiya: No no. I am coming right now.
Me: Bijoy, cool down. Taunting never helps. Instead figure out a way to set an alarm on his phone so that it reminds him of the time to pick up. Alternatively, arrange for a transport for the kids. How many parents pick up kids themselves these days? They arrange for school bus or other modes of transport.
At a roadside restaurant, Vicky and Elena are sitting.
He orders Lassi.
Elena: Lassi?
Vicky: Yes, we will have Lassi.
Elena: I can't drink so much Lassi. Do you know how much calorie is in there?
Vicky: I planned this trip and you are counting calories? You drink this Lassi. You got married. You got your husband.
Elena: Okay, I have no problem. But if I get fat, then don't complaint.
Vicky: Even if you get the size of an apartment, even then I won't complaint.
They enjoy spending time together, giggle and take selfie.
Just then Vicky gets his client's phone.
He asks Elena to open the translator and he tries to read the lines to the client.
The client doesn't get it and get angry.
Elena asks what happened.
Vicky said: I am not sure. He shouted and hanged off the phone.
Elena laughs.
Vicky said: Before he hanged up I said, Take care, sir. Wait, I said, Take care, stupid. Why are you laughing?
Elena keeps laughing.
Vicky: I might get into trouble for this.
Elena: So what? When you meet him, say sorry.
Vicky: Yes, why am I getting worried? He can't speak Hindi and I am speaking his language. Why should I be worried? I will take care of him.
Elena giggles and orders more Lassi.
Me: This is why this bubble head doesn't deserve a husband like Bhaiya. What career will she pursue with that brain? She is only capable of being a freeloader.
And Vicky, he may not speak Hindi and you may not speak Indonesian. But as far as I understand, international business people understand English. Why not speak in that language? He is another useless freeloader.
Suhaana: Dadu, when will Papa come?
Bijoy: He said on call that he is leaving..
Bhaiya comes running: Papa...
Bijoy: Dev, what is this?
Bhaiya: Papa, actually I got busy with Shubh and got late. Sorry.
Bijoy: Are you just saying sorry for being late or for something else? When you lied to the kids, I was here. First you lied to Sonakshi and then told the kids that there is nothing wrong in lying.
Look, Dev. I respect your decision. But this is not right. You have disappointed me a lot.
Bhaiya: I didn't want to do it, but...
Bijoy: Then you should not have done it. If I hadn't come on time, then Golu and that kid would have kept fighting. Had you come in time, it won't have happened.
If your decision impacts the kids like this, I don't think your decision is right.
Bhaiya: Baba, don't say this. I just want good for my family and my children.
Bijoy: I know this. That's why I didn't tell the truth to Sonakshi.
Me: Okay, Bijoy. I know you are upset. But here's what you should have done.
You should have taken the kids to nearest restaurant and feed them and let Bhaiya know that you are in a restaurant. That would have reduced the stress on kids.
When Bhaiya come there, you should have asked him to talk with you in PRIVATE and tell him everything you said.
You should not scold him in front of his kids. He may be your son's age. But he is their guardian.
Sonakshi comes there: Baba? What are you doing here?
Bijoy: Beta, I was passing through here, so I thought...
Sonakshi notices that Golu got injured: What is this?
Bhaiya stammers: See, Baba surprised us...
Bijoy whispers: He is dead meat today.
He says aloud: I thought I'd congratulate Dev on his decision.
Bhaiya: Why did you come? I came to pick them up.
Sonakshi: It's good that I came. I found out that Baba is also here.
Bhaiya: Yes.
Sonakshi: Come on, sit in the car.
Bhaiya looks guilty.
Sonakshi is suspicious.
Bhaiya leaves with them.
Bijoy thinks: Today Dev is dead meat.
Me: You know your daughter so well. May be because years of Asha's attitude got you conditioned. After all your daughter takes after your wife. Doesn't she?
Just like your wife, your daughter is always willing to jump down others' throats while expecting others to never point out their problems.
At Bose house, Asha asks: Bijoy, why did you call Sona?
Bijoy: Asha, I called Sona because Dev wasn't picking up his phone. And I did it in a way so that she doesn't find out anything. But still she found out. Or may be she was pretending because I was there.
Asha: I hope they don't get into a fight because of this.
Sourabh says: This is all new for Dev babu. He is trying too. There must be some difficulties. And I don't think Sona will get upset with this. She will understand.
Bijoy: Saurabh is absolutely right. Dev just got his responsibility. It will take time for him to get it right. And if they need help, they should tell us. What is shameful about this?
Asha makes faces.
Ronita says: I think you are overthinking this. If they took such a big decision together, then obviously they must have some understanding naa?
Saurabh: No, if this thing comes out in front of Ishwari aunty, she will get even more upset. As it is she is not happy with their decision.
Asha: No, it won't happen. I will do something.
Me: And that's the root of all problem. She didn't go to Bose house to help Sonakshi and Dev with their child caring problem. She went to brainwash Sonakshi so that she doesn't trust her own husband.
Bijoy showed more trust on Dev despite all evidences that Asha. But then, she is sexist. She treats her own husband like a stranger in her children's life. So what else will she advice Sona?
The kids come home. They run screaming inside.
Bhaiya stops Sonakshi: Are you angry with me?
Sonakshi: No Dev.
Bhaiya: If you are angry with me, then shout at me. But don't stay silent.
Sonakshi: No Dev. I am not angry with you. It's not just your responsibility. The kids are both of our responsibilities. Not just yours. Just because I go to work, it doesn't mean that you will handle all this alone. May be we are not ready for this. May be we took this decision too soon.
Me: Already? Just one stumble and you give up? Sonakshi, if you don't want to pursue a career, then don't. If you want to be stay-at-home mother, then do. But that doesn't mean Bhaiya has to stop being stay-at-home dad and go back to his "traditional" place.
He wants to learn how to care for the kids. Then he should be able to do so.
What if someone had told you that you don't deserve to be married because you failed the first time? Would you leave your husband?
What if Soha has to give up studies because she failed in maths? Would that be okay?
What if Golu is told to stay still because he hurt himself the first time? Will he be happy?
You are the most discouraging life partner for any man. Instead of helping him, like everyone else in his life, you are dragging him down by showing him mistrust and disbelief in his capabilities.
In short, you are just like Asha who is the worst wife any man can get.
Now the question is, how did Asha reach Dixit house so soon? She must be a witch.
The kids playing in the living room while Asha is sitting holding Shubh.
Golu suddenly smells something delicious. He gets excited.
Ishwari stops them.
Me: Hold on a minute. Am I missing something here? Who brought the kids home? And what about the precap scenes? Are there scenes missing from my upload? Someone enlighten me.
Suddenly Ishwari's hand falls on Golu's bruise. She asks: How did you get this injury?
Golu pretends: I don't know Badi Dadi. I didn't even notice.
Ishwari: But you got such a huge injury. How could you not notice?
Asha says: May be he got hurt while playing. Boys are so naughty naa?
Ishwari: You are absolutely right. He is very naughty. He won't tell. But my little doll will tell everything. Tell me Soha, how did he get hurt?
Soha stammers...
Just then Golu notices Elena. He greets her excitedly.
Ishwari says: It's good Elena that you came. Look at Golu. He got injured. But he isn't telling how he got the injury.
Elena asks: How did this happen, Golu? Do you go to school or to break a mountain?
Ishwari: Yes and he is not saying anything either. Did he fight with anyone?
Just then Sonakshi and Bhaiya come.
Sonakshi: Maa, when did you come?
Asha: I came just now.
She tells Shubh: Look Mamma is here.
Sonakshi comes to take Shubh: Mamma missed you very much. Did you miss Mamma?
Asha says: No, let him be. I met him after such a long time.
Sonakshi lets him stay with his grandma.
Me: What? Asha? Shubh to be deprived of his mother's cuddle? OMG... He is turning psycho in front of our eyes. You or any other family member can't stop that from happening. Only Sonakshi has that super power. You better hand over Shubh pronto.
Ishwari also notices Golu's dirty clothes.
Bhaiya asks why she is tensed.
Ishwari says: Look at Golu. He got injured and his clothes are dirty but they are not saying anything.
Sonakshi says: Actually Maa...
Bhaiya cuts in: Actually Maa, we were coming by car and the tire got punctured. Golu wanted to learn how to change the tier. That's how he got injured and got his clothes dirty.
Sonakshi is shocked.
Me: Seriously? Bhaiya, you will never learn your lessons. You lied many times, got caught, got tagged as a lier. But did you learn from your blunders? No. Why would you? Your lies never came attached with consequences. You always got out of it using charm or puppy face. Now you are teaching the same to Golu and Soha and eventually to Shubh.
Sonakshi, don't be shocked. You knew your husband lies and you knew that he never really learned his lessons. Between the harder truth and easier lie, he will always take the easier lie way out. And you never tried to fix that part of his personality.
Whether he is taking care of children or not, he will always be in there life and they will get influenced by his lying. It's up to you to stop him from lying which you always forgave easily before. But now there are far reaching consequences that even you can't ignore.
By the way, what happened to Bijoy? Where's that scene? I am confused.
Elena says: Golu, first you do the work of your age properly. Then you can learn about adult work. Come, I will wash your injury.
Golu asks: But Halwa?
Ishwari says: You will get Halwa after you put medicine on your wound. Go get the medicine first.
Elena takes him away.
Ishwari: Dev, Golu insisted so you started teaching him how to change a tire?
Bhaiya: Maa, it's survival skills. I thought kids should learn it. It's good for them.
Then he looks at Sonakshi who is glaring at him.
He shakes his head at Sonakshi.
Me: You will need survival skills shortly too Bhaiya if Sonakshi's glare is any indication.
Everyone is sitting at the dining table where Golu and Bhaiya are playing tug of war with a Halwa bowl.
Bhaiya wins the war: I will have the bigger bowl.
Golu: I will have the bigger bowl, BigCha. I said it first.
Ishwari comes there: No one will eat Halwa.
Bhaiya and Golu both say: Why?
Ishwari: Because I forgot something.
Bhaiya: You put everything in it, nuts, raisins. What did you forget?
Ishwari says: I will tell you. Wait.
She leaves from the table.
Bhaiya is worried.
Ishwari comes with papers and pens.
Soha asks: Dadi, what is this?
Ishwari: I will tell you. You take it too.
She distributes the papers to both kids and Bhaiya: I thought why don't we play a game before we have the food? You guys like to play games, naa? Now you three will write which tire Golu changed without seeing each other's answer.
Me: Ai ai ya... Bhaiya trapped again. First Bijoy catches him lying and now Ishwari. Bhaiya, ab to sudhar jao. Aur kitni beizzati karwaoge apni?
(Bhaiya, at least learn from this now. How much will you lower your respect?)
Bhaiya: Maa...
Sonakshi gets worried for him.
Ishwari: It's a good game naa?
Elena: But Buaji, what's the need for this?
Ishwari: There's a need for it. Come on, you write fast. Halwa is getting cold.
Golu tries to see Bhaiya's answer. But Ishwari catches him.
Quite obviously they got caught.
Ishwari looks at Bhaiya silently. She is upset.
Bhaiya looks guilty.
She leaves from there.
Bhaiya calls her. But she doesn't stop.
Asha tells Sonakshi: You two think carefully what must be done in the future.
Me: Wait a minute. How is Bhaiya's lying is anyway limited to Sonakshi's office hours? He lies all the time and anytime when he needs to. Unless Sonakshi is planning to keep him away from the kids permanently by giving him divorce and taking full custody, there's no way his lies won't impact the kids.
These two women - Asha and Ishwari are turning every one of Bhaiya's faults as the consequences of Sonakshi being a working mother. That's not right. Bhaiya's lies are part of his personality which needs to be changed. They had nothing to do with the arrangement they decided to apply.
Sonakshi gets a call just then. She leaves the table excusing herself.
Bhaiya comes to Ishwari's room.
Ishwari says: Go from here.
Bhaiya says: Maa, listen to me.
Ishwari: What shall I hear? Truth or more lies? You included the kids in your lies too? You didn't think once how the kids will get affected by this?
Bhaiya: Maa, I know I did wrong. I hurt you. And I am sorry for that. But you say naa that first step is lesson for the second mistake. So stand by me so that I don't make the same mistake again. Okay, now eat this Halwa. One spoon.
Ishwari: I am not hungry.
Bhaiya jokes: You don't know this Halwa was made by World's best cook. If you have it once, you will ask for it over and over.
Ishwari: Dev, don't joke. I am angry with you and let me stay angry for a while now.
Bhaiya: What can I do? When you are angry with me, I love you even more. Have Halwa a bit.
Ishwari: I don't want it.
Bhaiya: Maa please. Have one spoon. Taste it a bit. It's very good. See.
Ishwari finally has it.
Sonakshi talks to her client: Whether it happens or not. Our course of action will remain the same.
She hangs the phone.
Asha is waiting there to shovel some more bull to her: Beta, the lies Dev told at the school, his intention is not wrong. But lies are lies. Whether they are spoken for good or bad intention. They hurt someone or other.
I came here because I thought whatever happened in school might cause problem between you and Dev or you and Ishwari. But the issue has gone from one place to another.
Sonakshi: No, Maa. He has lied once and to hide that one lie, he is lying more.
Asha: The issue is not what happened today. But the issue of today is a signal for upcoming problems. Just think, what you are doing, is this right for the children? No decision of yours must be bigger than your children.
Sonakshi gets brainwashed.
Asha leaves. Her regressive brainwashing is done.
Me: Because of course, Bhaiya only started lying since they decided to switch roles. Until then Bhaiya never lied, Golu never fought/got into trouble and Soha never had tummy ache.
All boils down to Sonakshi being working mother. God forbid a woman dares to pursue a career after having babies. She should have personality transplant the day she gives birth so that no thoughts of self can come to her mind.
Just then Bhaiya comes there.
Sonakshi asks: Dev, Maa...
Bhaiya: Thank God, she forgave me. I was thinking that I am dead today.
Asha: That's very good. Now I have to go.
Me: Why did you come? What good did you do? Don't preach to Bijoy about interfering in Sona's life when you do exactly that. But oh I forgot.
Asha karen to matri leela
Bijoy karen to character dheela.
(If Asha does it, it's motherhood
If Bijoy does it, it's interference)
Because fathers are useless creatures as per Asha and Ishwari.
Anyhoo, Sonakshi goes to drop her to the door and tells Bhaiya to wait to talk.
He gets instantly worried.
Sonakshi leaves.
Bhaiya: I didn't know first day will be so interesting.
He then notices a file. He opens it and thinks.
Me: Seriously? Bhaiya, you need crash course on privacy after owning a business yourself? You can't peek into someone's file without their permission. Come on.
Downstairs, Sonakshi comes to Suhaana who is doing her homework.
Sonakshi asks: Today you are doing homework on your own today?
Suhaana: Yes, Mamma. Because Papa is tired naa? So I thought that I will do my homework on my own.
Sonakshi: Oh wow. You have become a good girl. When did you become so smart? Keep taking care of Mamma Papa like this.
Suhaana: Mamma, I will take care of you, Papa and Shubh.
Sonakshi: Yes, but take care of yourself too. Did you take your medicine?
Suhaana confirms that she took the medicines.
Sonakshi says: Very good. Take some rest after doing your homework.
She leaves.
Bhaiya is checking his timetable for next day. Sonakshi lays sleeping Shubh on his cot.
Sonakshi says: Dev, you don't need to follow this time table for tomorrow.
Bhaiya: Why?
Sonakshi: Because it's all done now.
Bhaiya: I know, today is done. But...
Sonakshi: Dev, you don't have to follow this time table because I think I should take the responsibility to raise the kids. In fact, both of us... And I also think you should join your work.
Me: What? Are you serious? Where is your, "I have complete trust on Dev?". It only took Asha to change your mind? All trust disappeared instantly?
And by the way, I hope you are also planning a divorce because how could you let a lier be a father to your children if you can't trust him to raise them?
Would any woman marry a person whom she doesn't trust to be her children's father?
Dev: But why?
Sonakshi: Because I think whatever everyone was saying was right. This is right for us and for kids. And a mother should be with her kids. What is natural is natural. I don't know what we were thinking and were trying to change things.
Me: Sonakshi, marriage is not natural. Why are you married?
Having sex when in heat is natural. Why aren't you sleeping around?
Having kids with the strongest sample of manhood is natural. Why you only want to be with Bhaiya?
So not all "natural" things are "normal" and not all "normal" things are not "natural".
You pretend to be a progressive woman Sonakshi. But your regressive mother brings out your regressive side every time and you always end up regretting the decision later. But do you learn? No.
Where was this natural lecture when you went to work when Soha was young? Didn't Soha deserve "natural" upbringing? Suddenly Shubh deserves "natural" organic product?
Bhaiya: That means you don't trust me.
Sonakshi: I didn't say that.
Bhaiya: You meant exactly that.
Me: Precisely. You are absolutely right Bhaiya.
I don't know, Sonakshi. Why are you married to him? People keep saying that Bijoy influences you. But no. Asha interferes and influences you.
Bhaiya is no longer Mamma's boy. But when will you stop being Mamma's girl?
Sonakshi: It's not like that. I felt, whatever Maa said was right. Today whatever mistake happened, I think it's a sign. It's a sign that anything can go wrong. And I think that things can go really wrong if...
Bhaiya: If I handle the kids. That's what you mean right?
Me: Yes. What else do you think she means?
Her mother convinced her that her husband is an useless man who is only good to provide the necessary equipment to conceive a child but utter failure in raising the same child and that has been judged in one day.
Even a Hitler like employer don't flog an employee on the first day of his job.
But the great Asha and saintly Ishwari, not to mention their perfect devotee Sonakshi do.
Wow, what women.
Bhaiya, they are your children too. So no one has the right to tell you whether you should raise kids or not. So if Sonakshi wants to stay at home, her wish.
You do what you want to do. Be a stay at home dad and show her that you can raise your kids better than her. And I think you will do a better job that this useless woman who doesn't deserve to be anyone's wife.
Sonakshi: Dev, I have decided. I will leave work and take care of the kids staying at home. Business comes and goes. But kids' childhood, once gone, will be gone.
Bhaiya: Sonakshi, don't take stress on what happened today. I read your project file. You are doing so much for so many kids. Please don't let this opportunity go. It's path breaking. It's huge.
Sonakshi: I am talking about my kids. I don't want to talk about someone else's kids.
Bhaiya: You were so affected by seeing these kids' photos and now you want to let go? You said that they are as old as Golu and Soha and some of them are just one year older than Shubh.
Sonakshi: I know what is written in my file. You don't force me to change my decision.
Bhaiya: Sonakshi, I am not forcing you to change your decision. I am just trying ti make you understand what you are letting go. If I had this opportunity, I'd have never let it go. The only difference is that I can't do this. You can. And if you won't do this, then don't know who will do it for them.
Sonakshi: If I have to do this for my kids, I will do it for them.
Bhaiya: You mean for OUR kids.
Sonakshi: Dev, I can't leave my kids like this.
Bhaiya: Sonakshi, you will be leaving them with their dad. Do you really think that I can't take their responsibilities? Come on Sonakshi. The time is changing. Now going against the tide doesn't mean we are wrong. What happened today could have happened by anyone. It could have happened by you. But please. You will have to show trust in me.
Sonakshi looks at him sternly.
Me: I absolutely agree with Bhaiya. Sonakshi doesn't trust his own kids with him. That brings me to a question. Why is she married to a man she doesn't trust with the most precious people in her life?
I am wondering. No, tell me.
If a mother knows that her husband is not good for her kids, will that mother stay in her marriage and still claim to be a good mother?
Besides what is a marriage or so-called love without trust?
I am feeling extremely sorry for Bhaiya. I am offended on your behalf.
PRECAP: A girl comes to Dixit mansion.
Sonakshi asks: Yes?
The girl says: Hi, I am Nikisha.
Bhaiya says: Yes, I am Dev.
Nikisha introduces herself again.
Bhaiya: Nanny?
Sonakshi: Nanny?
Nikisha says: Yes.
Me: Hold on a moment. Did this girl came to audition for heroine role? Because her outfit is not suitable for a nanny. How will she manage two active kids in such a tight dress? She is dressed up as playboy version of nanny and the sense of a gnat.
Anyways, she is not going to be hired for sure.
NO RULES!!! YAY!!!
A partner is not always a person with whom you have a romantic relationship.
A partner is also someone who understands, supports and is there by your side even if the whole world is against you.
When a husband and wife become partners, nothing and no one can stop them from achieving anything they want in life.
EPISODE:
UPDATED Missing portion: The episode starts with Sonakshi saying that she has to leave. She has to go to Soha's school.
Her employees remind her of a meeting.
Sonakshi says: That can be done later. This is urgent.
She leaves.
In the meanwhile, Bhaiya is still busy with Shubh when he notices Bijoy's three missed calls.
He calls him back: Baba, you called?
Bijoy says: Yes. I called three times. Where are you?
Bhaiya: I am at home. Is everything alright?
Bijoy: Nothing is alright. Just check your phone. What's the time now?
Bhaiya checks the phone and panics: I have to pick up the children. I am just coming there.
Bijoy: At least you realised. Okay. The kids are with me. I am bringing them.
Bhaiya stammers: No Papa. I am coming to pick them up. I am just coming.
Bijoy: No. You don't need to come.
Bhaiya: The kids are my responsibilities.
Bijoy: At least you realised that which you are fulfilling very well.
Bhaiya: No no. I am coming right now.
Me: Bijoy, cool down. Taunting never helps. Instead figure out a way to set an alarm on his phone so that it reminds him of the time to pick up. Alternatively, arrange for a transport for the kids. How many parents pick up kids themselves these days? They arrange for school bus or other modes of transport.
At a roadside restaurant, Vicky and Elena are sitting.
He orders Lassi.
Elena: Lassi?
Vicky: Yes, we will have Lassi.
Elena: I can't drink so much Lassi. Do you know how much calorie is in there?
Vicky: I planned this trip and you are counting calories? You drink this Lassi. You got married. You got your husband.
Elena: Okay, I have no problem. But if I get fat, then don't complaint.
Vicky: Even if you get the size of an apartment, even then I won't complaint.
They enjoy spending time together, giggle and take selfie.
Just then Vicky gets his client's phone.
He asks Elena to open the translator and he tries to read the lines to the client.
The client doesn't get it and get angry.
Elena asks what happened.
Vicky said: I am not sure. He shouted and hanged off the phone.
Elena laughs.
Vicky said: Before he hanged up I said, Take care, sir. Wait, I said, Take care, stupid. Why are you laughing?
Elena keeps laughing.
Vicky: I might get into trouble for this.
Elena: So what? When you meet him, say sorry.
Vicky: Yes, why am I getting worried? He can't speak Hindi and I am speaking his language. Why should I be worried? I will take care of him.
Elena giggles and orders more Lassi.
Me: This is why this bubble head doesn't deserve a husband like Bhaiya. What career will she pursue with that brain? She is only capable of being a freeloader.
And Vicky, he may not speak Hindi and you may not speak Indonesian. But as far as I understand, international business people understand English. Why not speak in that language? He is another useless freeloader.
Suhaana: Dadu, when will Papa come?
Bijoy: He said on call that he is leaving..
Bhaiya comes running: Papa...
Bijoy: Dev, what is this?
Bhaiya: Papa, actually I got busy with Shubh and got late. Sorry.
Bijoy: Are you just saying sorry for being late or for something else? When you lied to the kids, I was here. First you lied to Sonakshi and then told the kids that there is nothing wrong in lying.
Look, Dev. I respect your decision. But this is not right. You have disappointed me a lot.
Bhaiya: I didn't want to do it, but...
Bijoy: Then you should not have done it. If I hadn't come on time, then Golu and that kid would have kept fighting. Had you come in time, it won't have happened.
If your decision impacts the kids like this, I don't think your decision is right.
Bhaiya: Baba, don't say this. I just want good for my family and my children.
Bijoy: I know this. That's why I didn't tell the truth to Sonakshi.
Me: Okay, Bijoy. I know you are upset. But here's what you should have done.
You should have taken the kids to nearest restaurant and feed them and let Bhaiya know that you are in a restaurant. That would have reduced the stress on kids.
When Bhaiya come there, you should have asked him to talk with you in PRIVATE and tell him everything you said.
You should not scold him in front of his kids. He may be your son's age. But he is their guardian.
Sonakshi comes there: Baba? What are you doing here?
Bijoy: Beta, I was passing through here, so I thought...
Sonakshi notices that Golu got injured: What is this?
Bhaiya stammers: See, Baba surprised us...
Bijoy whispers: He is dead meat today.
He says aloud: I thought I'd congratulate Dev on his decision.
Bhaiya: Why did you come? I came to pick them up.
Sonakshi: It's good that I came. I found out that Baba is also here.
Bhaiya: Yes.
Sonakshi: Come on, sit in the car.
Bhaiya looks guilty.
Sonakshi is suspicious.
Bhaiya leaves with them.
Bijoy thinks: Today Dev is dead meat.
Me: You know your daughter so well. May be because years of Asha's attitude got you conditioned. After all your daughter takes after your wife. Doesn't she?
Just like your wife, your daughter is always willing to jump down others' throats while expecting others to never point out their problems.
At Bose house, Asha asks: Bijoy, why did you call Sona?
Bijoy: Asha, I called Sona because Dev wasn't picking up his phone. And I did it in a way so that she doesn't find out anything. But still she found out. Or may be she was pretending because I was there.
Asha: I hope they don't get into a fight because of this.
Sourabh says: This is all new for Dev babu. He is trying too. There must be some difficulties. And I don't think Sona will get upset with this. She will understand.
Bijoy: Saurabh is absolutely right. Dev just got his responsibility. It will take time for him to get it right. And if they need help, they should tell us. What is shameful about this?
Asha makes faces.
Ronita says: I think you are overthinking this. If they took such a big decision together, then obviously they must have some understanding naa?
Saurabh: No, if this thing comes out in front of Ishwari aunty, she will get even more upset. As it is she is not happy with their decision.
Asha: No, it won't happen. I will do something.
Me: And that's the root of all problem. She didn't go to Bose house to help Sonakshi and Dev with their child caring problem. She went to brainwash Sonakshi so that she doesn't trust her own husband.
Bijoy showed more trust on Dev despite all evidences that Asha. But then, she is sexist. She treats her own husband like a stranger in her children's life. So what else will she advice Sona?
The kids come home. They run screaming inside.
Bhaiya stops Sonakshi: Are you angry with me?
Sonakshi: No Dev.
Bhaiya: If you are angry with me, then shout at me. But don't stay silent.
Sonakshi: No Dev. I am not angry with you. It's not just your responsibility. The kids are both of our responsibilities. Not just yours. Just because I go to work, it doesn't mean that you will handle all this alone. May be we are not ready for this. May be we took this decision too soon.
Me: Already? Just one stumble and you give up? Sonakshi, if you don't want to pursue a career, then don't. If you want to be stay-at-home mother, then do. But that doesn't mean Bhaiya has to stop being stay-at-home dad and go back to his "traditional" place.
He wants to learn how to care for the kids. Then he should be able to do so.
What if someone had told you that you don't deserve to be married because you failed the first time? Would you leave your husband?
What if Soha has to give up studies because she failed in maths? Would that be okay?
What if Golu is told to stay still because he hurt himself the first time? Will he be happy?
You are the most discouraging life partner for any man. Instead of helping him, like everyone else in his life, you are dragging him down by showing him mistrust and disbelief in his capabilities.
In short, you are just like Asha who is the worst wife any man can get.
Now the question is, how did Asha reach Dixit house so soon? She must be a witch.
The kids playing in the living room while Asha is sitting holding Shubh.
Golu suddenly smells something delicious. He gets excited.
Ishwari stops them.
Me: Hold on a minute. Am I missing something here? Who brought the kids home? And what about the precap scenes? Are there scenes missing from my upload? Someone enlighten me.
Suddenly Ishwari's hand falls on Golu's bruise. She asks: How did you get this injury?
Golu pretends: I don't know Badi Dadi. I didn't even notice.
Ishwari: But you got such a huge injury. How could you not notice?
Asha says: May be he got hurt while playing. Boys are so naughty naa?
Ishwari: You are absolutely right. He is very naughty. He won't tell. But my little doll will tell everything. Tell me Soha, how did he get hurt?
Soha stammers...
Just then Golu notices Elena. He greets her excitedly.
Ishwari says: It's good Elena that you came. Look at Golu. He got injured. But he isn't telling how he got the injury.
Elena asks: How did this happen, Golu? Do you go to school or to break a mountain?
Ishwari: Yes and he is not saying anything either. Did he fight with anyone?
Just then Sonakshi and Bhaiya come.
Sonakshi: Maa, when did you come?
Asha: I came just now.
She tells Shubh: Look Mamma is here.
Sonakshi comes to take Shubh: Mamma missed you very much. Did you miss Mamma?
Asha says: No, let him be. I met him after such a long time.
Sonakshi lets him stay with his grandma.
Me: What? Asha? Shubh to be deprived of his mother's cuddle? OMG... He is turning psycho in front of our eyes. You or any other family member can't stop that from happening. Only Sonakshi has that super power. You better hand over Shubh pronto.
Ishwari also notices Golu's dirty clothes.
Bhaiya asks why she is tensed.
Ishwari says: Look at Golu. He got injured and his clothes are dirty but they are not saying anything.
Sonakshi says: Actually Maa...
Bhaiya cuts in: Actually Maa, we were coming by car and the tire got punctured. Golu wanted to learn how to change the tier. That's how he got injured and got his clothes dirty.
Sonakshi is shocked.
Me: Seriously? Bhaiya, you will never learn your lessons. You lied many times, got caught, got tagged as a lier. But did you learn from your blunders? No. Why would you? Your lies never came attached with consequences. You always got out of it using charm or puppy face. Now you are teaching the same to Golu and Soha and eventually to Shubh.
Sonakshi, don't be shocked. You knew your husband lies and you knew that he never really learned his lessons. Between the harder truth and easier lie, he will always take the easier lie way out. And you never tried to fix that part of his personality.
Whether he is taking care of children or not, he will always be in there life and they will get influenced by his lying. It's up to you to stop him from lying which you always forgave easily before. But now there are far reaching consequences that even you can't ignore.
By the way, what happened to Bijoy? Where's that scene? I am confused.
Elena says: Golu, first you do the work of your age properly. Then you can learn about adult work. Come, I will wash your injury.
Golu asks: But Halwa?
Ishwari says: You will get Halwa after you put medicine on your wound. Go get the medicine first.
Elena takes him away.
Ishwari: Dev, Golu insisted so you started teaching him how to change a tire?
Bhaiya: Maa, it's survival skills. I thought kids should learn it. It's good for them.
Then he looks at Sonakshi who is glaring at him.
He shakes his head at Sonakshi.
Me: You will need survival skills shortly too Bhaiya if Sonakshi's glare is any indication.
Everyone is sitting at the dining table where Golu and Bhaiya are playing tug of war with a Halwa bowl.
Bhaiya wins the war: I will have the bigger bowl.
Golu: I will have the bigger bowl, BigCha. I said it first.
Ishwari comes there: No one will eat Halwa.
Bhaiya and Golu both say: Why?
Ishwari: Because I forgot something.
Bhaiya: You put everything in it, nuts, raisins. What did you forget?
Ishwari says: I will tell you. Wait.
She leaves from the table.
Bhaiya is worried.
Ishwari comes with papers and pens.
Soha asks: Dadi, what is this?
Ishwari: I will tell you. You take it too.
She distributes the papers to both kids and Bhaiya: I thought why don't we play a game before we have the food? You guys like to play games, naa? Now you three will write which tire Golu changed without seeing each other's answer.
Me: Ai ai ya... Bhaiya trapped again. First Bijoy catches him lying and now Ishwari. Bhaiya, ab to sudhar jao. Aur kitni beizzati karwaoge apni?
(Bhaiya, at least learn from this now. How much will you lower your respect?)
Bhaiya: Maa...
Sonakshi gets worried for him.
Ishwari: It's a good game naa?
Elena: But Buaji, what's the need for this?
Ishwari: There's a need for it. Come on, you write fast. Halwa is getting cold.
Golu tries to see Bhaiya's answer. But Ishwari catches him.
Quite obviously they got caught.
Ishwari looks at Bhaiya silently. She is upset.
Bhaiya looks guilty.
She leaves from there.
Bhaiya calls her. But she doesn't stop.
Asha tells Sonakshi: You two think carefully what must be done in the future.
Me: Wait a minute. How is Bhaiya's lying is anyway limited to Sonakshi's office hours? He lies all the time and anytime when he needs to. Unless Sonakshi is planning to keep him away from the kids permanently by giving him divorce and taking full custody, there's no way his lies won't impact the kids.
These two women - Asha and Ishwari are turning every one of Bhaiya's faults as the consequences of Sonakshi being a working mother. That's not right. Bhaiya's lies are part of his personality which needs to be changed. They had nothing to do with the arrangement they decided to apply.
Sonakshi gets a call just then. She leaves the table excusing herself.
Bhaiya comes to Ishwari's room.
Ishwari says: Go from here.
Bhaiya says: Maa, listen to me.
Ishwari: What shall I hear? Truth or more lies? You included the kids in your lies too? You didn't think once how the kids will get affected by this?
Bhaiya: Maa, I know I did wrong. I hurt you. And I am sorry for that. But you say naa that first step is lesson for the second mistake. So stand by me so that I don't make the same mistake again. Okay, now eat this Halwa. One spoon.
Ishwari: I am not hungry.
Bhaiya jokes: You don't know this Halwa was made by World's best cook. If you have it once, you will ask for it over and over.
Ishwari: Dev, don't joke. I am angry with you and let me stay angry for a while now.
Bhaiya: What can I do? When you are angry with me, I love you even more. Have Halwa a bit.
Ishwari: I don't want it.
Bhaiya: Maa please. Have one spoon. Taste it a bit. It's very good. See.
Ishwari finally has it.
Sonakshi talks to her client: Whether it happens or not. Our course of action will remain the same.
She hangs the phone.
Asha is waiting there to shovel some more bull to her: Beta, the lies Dev told at the school, his intention is not wrong. But lies are lies. Whether they are spoken for good or bad intention. They hurt someone or other.
I came here because I thought whatever happened in school might cause problem between you and Dev or you and Ishwari. But the issue has gone from one place to another.
Sonakshi: No, Maa. He has lied once and to hide that one lie, he is lying more.
Asha: The issue is not what happened today. But the issue of today is a signal for upcoming problems. Just think, what you are doing, is this right for the children? No decision of yours must be bigger than your children.
Sonakshi gets brainwashed.
Asha leaves. Her regressive brainwashing is done.
Me: Because of course, Bhaiya only started lying since they decided to switch roles. Until then Bhaiya never lied, Golu never fought/got into trouble and Soha never had tummy ache.
All boils down to Sonakshi being working mother. God forbid a woman dares to pursue a career after having babies. She should have personality transplant the day she gives birth so that no thoughts of self can come to her mind.
Just then Bhaiya comes there.
Sonakshi asks: Dev, Maa...
Bhaiya: Thank God, she forgave me. I was thinking that I am dead today.
Asha: That's very good. Now I have to go.
Me: Why did you come? What good did you do? Don't preach to Bijoy about interfering in Sona's life when you do exactly that. But oh I forgot.
Asha karen to matri leela
Bijoy karen to character dheela.
(If Asha does it, it's motherhood
If Bijoy does it, it's interference)
Because fathers are useless creatures as per Asha and Ishwari.
Anyhoo, Sonakshi goes to drop her to the door and tells Bhaiya to wait to talk.
He gets instantly worried.
Sonakshi leaves.
Bhaiya: I didn't know first day will be so interesting.
He then notices a file. He opens it and thinks.
Me: Seriously? Bhaiya, you need crash course on privacy after owning a business yourself? You can't peek into someone's file without their permission. Come on.
Downstairs, Sonakshi comes to Suhaana who is doing her homework.
Sonakshi asks: Today you are doing homework on your own today?
Suhaana: Yes, Mamma. Because Papa is tired naa? So I thought that I will do my homework on my own.
Sonakshi: Oh wow. You have become a good girl. When did you become so smart? Keep taking care of Mamma Papa like this.
Suhaana: Mamma, I will take care of you, Papa and Shubh.
Sonakshi: Yes, but take care of yourself too. Did you take your medicine?
Suhaana confirms that she took the medicines.
Sonakshi says: Very good. Take some rest after doing your homework.
She leaves.
Bhaiya is checking his timetable for next day. Sonakshi lays sleeping Shubh on his cot.
Sonakshi says: Dev, you don't need to follow this time table for tomorrow.
Bhaiya: Why?
Sonakshi: Because it's all done now.
Bhaiya: I know, today is done. But...
Sonakshi: Dev, you don't have to follow this time table because I think I should take the responsibility to raise the kids. In fact, both of us... And I also think you should join your work.
Me: What? Are you serious? Where is your, "I have complete trust on Dev?". It only took Asha to change your mind? All trust disappeared instantly?
And by the way, I hope you are also planning a divorce because how could you let a lier be a father to your children if you can't trust him to raise them?
Would any woman marry a person whom she doesn't trust to be her children's father?
Dev: But why?
Sonakshi: Because I think whatever everyone was saying was right. This is right for us and for kids. And a mother should be with her kids. What is natural is natural. I don't know what we were thinking and were trying to change things.
Me: Sonakshi, marriage is not natural. Why are you married?
Having sex when in heat is natural. Why aren't you sleeping around?
Having kids with the strongest sample of manhood is natural. Why you only want to be with Bhaiya?
So not all "natural" things are "normal" and not all "normal" things are not "natural".
You pretend to be a progressive woman Sonakshi. But your regressive mother brings out your regressive side every time and you always end up regretting the decision later. But do you learn? No.
Where was this natural lecture when you went to work when Soha was young? Didn't Soha deserve "natural" upbringing? Suddenly Shubh deserves "natural" organic product?
Bhaiya: That means you don't trust me.
Sonakshi: I didn't say that.
Bhaiya: You meant exactly that.
Me: Precisely. You are absolutely right Bhaiya.
I don't know, Sonakshi. Why are you married to him? People keep saying that Bijoy influences you. But no. Asha interferes and influences you.
Bhaiya is no longer Mamma's boy. But when will you stop being Mamma's girl?
Sonakshi: It's not like that. I felt, whatever Maa said was right. Today whatever mistake happened, I think it's a sign. It's a sign that anything can go wrong. And I think that things can go really wrong if...
Bhaiya: If I handle the kids. That's what you mean right?
Me: Yes. What else do you think she means?
Her mother convinced her that her husband is an useless man who is only good to provide the necessary equipment to conceive a child but utter failure in raising the same child and that has been judged in one day.
Even a Hitler like employer don't flog an employee on the first day of his job.
But the great Asha and saintly Ishwari, not to mention their perfect devotee Sonakshi do.
Wow, what women.
Bhaiya, they are your children too. So no one has the right to tell you whether you should raise kids or not. So if Sonakshi wants to stay at home, her wish.
You do what you want to do. Be a stay at home dad and show her that you can raise your kids better than her. And I think you will do a better job that this useless woman who doesn't deserve to be anyone's wife.
Sonakshi: Dev, I have decided. I will leave work and take care of the kids staying at home. Business comes and goes. But kids' childhood, once gone, will be gone.
Bhaiya: Sonakshi, don't take stress on what happened today. I read your project file. You are doing so much for so many kids. Please don't let this opportunity go. It's path breaking. It's huge.
Sonakshi: I am talking about my kids. I don't want to talk about someone else's kids.
Bhaiya: You were so affected by seeing these kids' photos and now you want to let go? You said that they are as old as Golu and Soha and some of them are just one year older than Shubh.
Sonakshi: I know what is written in my file. You don't force me to change my decision.
Bhaiya: Sonakshi, I am not forcing you to change your decision. I am just trying ti make you understand what you are letting go. If I had this opportunity, I'd have never let it go. The only difference is that I can't do this. You can. And if you won't do this, then don't know who will do it for them.
Sonakshi: If I have to do this for my kids, I will do it for them.
Bhaiya: You mean for OUR kids.
Sonakshi: Dev, I can't leave my kids like this.
Bhaiya: Sonakshi, you will be leaving them with their dad. Do you really think that I can't take their responsibilities? Come on Sonakshi. The time is changing. Now going against the tide doesn't mean we are wrong. What happened today could have happened by anyone. It could have happened by you. But please. You will have to show trust in me.
Sonakshi looks at him sternly.
Me: I absolutely agree with Bhaiya. Sonakshi doesn't trust his own kids with him. That brings me to a question. Why is she married to a man she doesn't trust with the most precious people in her life?
I am wondering. No, tell me.
If a mother knows that her husband is not good for her kids, will that mother stay in her marriage and still claim to be a good mother?
Besides what is a marriage or so-called love without trust?
I am feeling extremely sorry for Bhaiya. I am offended on your behalf.
PRECAP: A girl comes to Dixit mansion.
Sonakshi asks: Yes?
The girl says: Hi, I am Nikisha.
Bhaiya says: Yes, I am Dev.
Nikisha introduces herself again.
Bhaiya: Nanny?
Sonakshi: Nanny?
Nikisha says: Yes.
Me: Hold on a moment. Did this girl came to audition for heroine role? Because her outfit is not suitable for a nanny. How will she manage two active kids in such a tight dress? She is dressed up as playboy version of nanny and the sense of a gnat.
Anyways, she is not going to be hired for sure.
NO RULES!!! YAY!!!
Oh Tia. You missed the entire beginning part of the episode. You can watch it here : http://biggboss10.me/watch-video-kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi-3rd-october-2017-episode-395/
ReplyDeleteThanks. I got it all. :)
DeleteWhat's with this show and Halwa man. Gimme a break.also just to show bhaiya as progressive and supportive they are showing sona as extremely selfish.
ReplyDeleteYep. Sona is being shown as Mamma's girl who leaves her husband's side the moment Mamma says so. What a useless woman.
DeleteDin u feel sona sounded extremely selfish, when she spoke about those needy kids. This is coming from the same woman who risked her life to absolved ish of a crime she was partially guilty of. Also the woman risked getting molested just so that dev and his sisters could take some stupid selfie. Guess her selflessness is limited to Ishwari and her spoilt daughters.The next person who calls her deeds altruistic is inviting my fury.
DeleteSona has Asha like tendencies. When it's not to their personal cost, they pretend to be altruistic. But the moment it comes to applying the same principal vs. appearing good in front of certain people, they ditch the principal pronto.
DeleteAsha lectured Ishwari on having a career, she wanted Sourabh to be successful. But the moment it came to appear good in front of Ishwari vs. her daughter's well being, her lofty lecture went out the window.
Sonakshi is the same way. Had it been anyone else like Riya, Neha or Nikki, she'd have given some other advice. But because now her mummy said so and mother-in-law wants it, she is willing to ignore what her husband wants.